Idk why this is so incredibly catchy, guess it pulls at my heart strings cause it reminds me of my boy band days lol
Forest by NataliaSeed
"If you cannot love yourself, you cannot love another. Many people make the mistake of seeking love of self through love for another, this is usually subconscious; the thought ‘if I can just love others, they will love me. Then I will be lovable, and I can love me.’
The reverse of this is that so many people hate themselves because they feel there is no one who loves them. This is a sickness - true “love sickness”, and the truth is people do love them but it doesn’t matter. No matter how many people profess their love for them,it is not enough.
First, they don’t believe you. They think you are trying to manipulate them-trying to get something; for how could you love them for who they truly are? No, there must be some mistake, what do you want? They try to figure out how anyone could actually love them. Since they do not believe you, they embark on a campaign to make you prove it. To do this, you may be asked to alter your behavior.
Second, if they come to a place where they can believe you love them, they begin at once to worry how long they can keep your love, and in order to hold onto your love they alter their behavior.
Thus, two people literally lose themselves in a relationship. Two people join together hoping the sum will be greater than the parts, only to find it’s less. This is because they’ve given up most of who they are to be-and to stay-in their relationship.”
This is so fucking true, my god it’s so true.
So, learn to accept yourself and love yourself if you truly want to be happy.
Oh god pleeeaase 😂😂
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